Well, I’m trying to analyze a situation that someone I care for is involved in but I find it to be a lot to choke down. This guy claims to be separated from his wife, but living with her, and he just bought a boat for $20,000. Doesn’t seem like the time to be buying a boat if he were separated and planning on divorcing so I wonder what the legal ramifications are if he were to buy a boat knowing he was getting divorced soon? Looks like something I don’t want to get involved with, huh? I like him, though, so I’m trying to weigh out my options before I walk. In the meantime, I’m not talking to him. And what’s up with him living with someone for “financial reasons” then buying a boat? This doesn’t look good in black and white!
They’re not separated, they’re just lying to themselves and others. I’d stay far, far away if I were you.
That’s definitely NOT normal. It sounds like he is not separated but still with her and feeding you a line of bull to get in your pants.
I suggest you walk away and find another man!
He is lying why don’t you ask his wife if they are separated. It’s probably news to her.
I wouldn’t live with someone unless they were divorced, he’s still married anything they buy is considered marital property till they divorce.
If he’s still living with her, they’re not seperated and unless they have some type of legal seperation, that boat is now community property so she’ll get half the value in case of a divorce. The guy sounds a bit flaky to me – I don’t think I’d take things too far until you get to know him a bit better. Do you even know for sure that he is planning on divorcing? Maybe that’s just a ploy to get you in the sack.
This man has no intention of divorcing. He is selling a really good game and you are buying it up left and right. It is never a good idea to get involved with a married man, NEVER. If a man, who is still living with his wife, gets himself into another romantic relationship, he is playing both of you. Leave him alone. . . there are many single, wonderful men in this world, and that one is taken.
You are definitely kidding.
It looks like you are getting yourself involved with a MARRIED MAN, who is not separted from his wife, much less divorcing her!
I bet his wife is clueless about this suppose “SEPARATION”!
Don’t Ever get involved with a MARRIED Man, very bad idea!!
Listen to your intuition and get out of that situation. You are right, it doesn’t look good. Something is fishy here, and I’m not just talking about the boat.
Never mess with a married spouse
Never mess with a separated spouse
when it looks like a duck and walks like a duck it ain’t a horse
Run!!
Separated means living apart. . . he’s feeding you a line of Bull sh-!t, Kiddo. . . . . . . if they divorce she owns half interest in the boat. . he will have to give that to her, or sell the boat and split the proceeds. . .
if you live together you are not separated. . . . . continue to ignore him.